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Do Your Children Think the Temple is Sacred or Secret?

 

 

Secret …

Sacred …

These two words may appear to have a lot in common.

A child might even confuse them.

They sound similar.

They look similar.

But they couldn’t be more different in meaning.

 

How can you make sure that your children understand the difference?

The first step is to make sure we know the difference ourselves.

The world certainly doesn’t.

 

 

Remember that that which cometh from above is sacred,

and must be spoken with care, and by constraint of the Spirit;

and in this there is no condemnation.

D&C 63:64

 

Do your children think the Temple is sacred or secret?

 

Some synonyms of secret are:

  • Clandestine
  • Furtive
  • Underhanded
  • Stealthy

While the word sacred is synonymous with:

  • Holy
  • Blessed
  • Consecrated
  • Sanctified

If someone asks your child to keep a secret, its often a warning sign.

Secrets often cover harmful behaviors.

(Think “secret combinations”)

The things taught and experienced in the Temple are NOT clandestine or furtive.

They are holy, and sanctified.

Temples are created to offer beautiful, tender, hopeful experiences to us from our loving Father in heaven.

The word sacred is the foundation of all Temple work while the word secret just doesn’t apply.

 

Help your children understand that the Temple is sacred, not secret

 

To teach your children that the Temple is sacred, not secret, ask them a few questions:

What does sacred mean?

Does it mean the same thing as secret?

Which word applies to Temples?

How will you feel the first time you go to the Temple

(Scared or excited, confused or ready to learn)?

If they feel scared or confused about what happens in the Temple,

then they have probably misunderstood the difference between sacred and secret.

It’s time to snuggle up with your child.

Add a warm blanket, some hot chocolate and quiet words.

Help them to know how sweet their future Temple experiences can be.

Help them understand

that Heavenly Father wants their Temple experiences to be joyful, peaceful and healing.

He wants Temple experiences to be sacred.

If there were preaching which was sacred,

or revelation which was great, or prophesying,

that I should … touch upon them as much as it were possible,

for Christ’s sake,

and for the sake of our people.

Jacob 1:4

 

Heavenly Father wants to bless your children with “sacred things.”

You are the person most likely to teach them these beautiful truths successfully

because you love them and you know them better than anyone else does. 

Elder Bednar’s two guidelines will help you

 

Guideline #1. Because we love the Lord, we always should speak about His holy house with reverence. We should not disclose or describe the special symbols associated with the covenants we receive in sacred temple ceremonies. Neither should we discuss the holy information that we specifically promise in the temple not to reveal.

Guideline #2. The temple is the house of the Lord. Everything in the temple points us to our Savior, Jesus Christ. We may discuss the basic purposes of, and the doctrine and principles associated with temple ordinances and covenants.

 

With the guidance of the Holy Ghost

you can avoid the mistake of never talking about the Temple

for fear of saying something wrong.

You can take your experiences in the Temple

and fashion them into tools that will bless your whole family.

You can teach your children that the Temple is sacred, not secret.

 

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I would love to hear how your “sacred or secret” conversation went.

Will you please respond down in the comment section?

 

Here are a few more ideas of topics you can discuss with your children:

  • What does the phrase “Holiness to the Lord” mean? Where can you see that phrase? (See Exodus 28:36
  • The Temple is a place of revelation. Explain exactly what happens, step by step, when we are baptized for our deceased ancestors.
  • You could even draw pictures about what happens at the baptistry. (Stick figures work fine.)
  • The Temple is all about service. Here is a gift from me to help your children learn what a joy service is.

Here are 10 more  ideas. 

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